About the children (2024)

Children and teens enter foster care through no fault of their own, because they have been abused, neglected, or abandoned and are unable to continue living safely with their families

About the children (1)

According to the most recent federal data, there are currently more than 400,000 children in foster care in the United States. They range in age from infants to 21 years old (in some states). The average age of a child in foster care is more than 8 years old, and there are slightly more boys than girls.

Children and youth enter foster care because they have been abused, neglected, or abandoned by their parents or guardians. All of these children have experienced loss and some form of trauma. In other ways, foster children are no different from children who aren’t in foster care: they are learning and growing, like to play and hang out with friends their age, and need the love and stability a permanent home provides.

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The median amount of time that a child spends in foster care is just over a year. More than half of the children in foster care will be reunified with their parents or primary caregivers, and nearly one-quarter will be adopted, many by their foster parents.

Each year, approximately 20,000 youth will age out of the foster care system when they turn 18 or 21, or when they finish high school (depending upon the state in which they live.) These children are at increased risk of poor educational outcomes, experiencing homelessness, and being unemployed. Read more about why teens need families.

Frequently asked questions about children in foster care

AdoptUSKids foster care and adoption resource specialists respond to hundreds of questions about foster care and adoption, and an active community of families is always exchanging information on our Facebook page. Following are our responses to some of the questions that are frequently asked about the children in foster care.

How many children are awaiting adoption in the United States?

Of the 400,000 children in foster care, approximately 117,000 are waiting to be adopted.

I have heard that many children in foster care have “special needs.” What does that mean?

The term “special needs” simply refers to children who qualify for adoption assistance—ongoing governmental medical and/or financial support after adoption occurs—due to specific factors or conditions such as:

  • Being an older child
  • Having a particular racial or ethnic background
  • Being part of a sibling group needing to be placed together as one unit
  • Medical conditions
  • Physical, mental, or emotional disabilities

A child with special needs should not be confused with a child who requires special education.

I see a lot of older children in photolistings like the one on AdoptUSKids. Why would I want to adopt an older child?

Imagine being a teenager grappling with the transition into adolescence and independence all alone. That is the situation facing thousands of young people who face aging out of foster care alone every year. These teens need support, guidance, and family now and for the rest of their lives.

Read more about why teens need families.

Are brothers and sisters always adopted together?

In an ideal world, the answer would be yes. Research suggests that siblings placed together experience lower risk of failed placements, fewer moves, and many emotional benefits. Even when siblings have been separated in foster care, the goal is to find them a safe, permanent home where they can grow up together.

Read more about the benefits of adopting siblings.

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FAQs

What is the think about the children fallacy? ›

"Think of the children" (also "What about the children?") is a phrase that evolved into a rhetorical tactic. Used literally it refers to children's rights, as in discussions of child labor. In debate, this plea for pity is wielded as an appeal to emotion which constitutes a logical fallacy.

What does think about the children mean? ›

"Think of the children" (also "What about the children?") is a cliché that evolved into a rhetorical tactic. In the literal sense, it refers to children's rights (as in discussions of child labor). In debate, it is a plea for pity that is used as an appeal to emotion, and therefore may become a logical fallacy.

How do you explain the F word to a child? ›

Just tell him it's a swear word and he shouldn't use it; if you really want to you could say it's to do with sex, so inappropriate for a child to use, but not really necessary to explain.

What was so special about the child? ›

For those who remember what it was like to be a child, answering the question, “What is special about children?” might seem easy. Childhood is a period of time in one's life that seems particularly distinct from others. It is a period of discovery, growth, adventure, novelty, challenges, and often fear.

What is there's something wrong with the children about? ›

What is the starving African fallacy? ›

This is officially called the fallacy of relative privation, colloquially better known as appeal to worse problems, or "children are starving in Africa" argument. The implication is that anything short of starving children is not worthy of serious discussion.

Why do you Think the children are so mean to Margot? ›

The children mistreat Margot because they are jealous of her for being able to remember what it was like to experience the sun. They refuse to believe what she says because they have never experienced it themselves, and are not able to relate to her.

When did Margaret Mead say children must be taught how to think not what to think? ›

Children must be taught how to think, not what to think. In 'Education for Choice', Coming of Age in Samoa (1928, 1961), 246.

What is the quote about children and roots? ›

Parents should provide their children with roots and wings. There are only two lasting bequests we can hope to give our children. One of these is roots, the other wings. Good parents give their children roots and wings: roots to know where home is, and wings to fly off and practice what has been taught them.

Why is the F word called the F word? ›

It is remotely derived from the Latin futuere and Old German ficken/f*cken meaning 'to strike or penetrate', which had the slang meaning to copulate. Eric Partridge, a famous etymologist, said that the German word was related to the Latin words for pugilist, puncture, and prick.

What should I say instead of the F word? ›

One alternative is to employ cursing-soundalike words. In place of the f-bomb you might use freaking or, if you were a Battlestar Galactica fan, fracking.

Can I name my child the F word? ›

The law bans names that contain “obscenity, numerals, symbols, or a combination of letters, numerals, or symbols…”, but naming a child after a mass murderer is A-OK. In most cases, the United States is pretty relaxed about what you can name your child when it comes to the stigma or meaning a name may carry.

What is the best thing about kids? ›

For some of us, children are the connection to what is most vital, most magical about being human. They connect us to all that we have forgotten about what was silly, funny, stupid and goofy about life, and helps us to see things in a different light.

What made you happy as a child? ›

As a child, life is all about enjoyment, exploring new things, and spending quality time with those we love. In childhood, a sense of dependence on those we love provides a great sense of purpose. As we grow older, we realise just how important to our happiness it is to be seen, heard, and understood.

What is an example of a fallacy for kids? ›

The following statements are examples of fallacious statements: “All German Shepherds are dogs; therefore, all dogs are German Shepherds.” The logic of this statement is fallacious. This is syllogism fallacy, where a false argument implies the conclusion.

What is an example of the fallacy of thinking strawman? ›

A straw man argument is when someone sets up and then disputes an assertion that is not actually being made. For example, if someone says they love the color blue and someone else argues that red is better, asserting that the first person obviously hates the color red, this would be a straw man argument.

What is the fallacy of existentialism? ›

The existential fallacy occurs when we erroneously suppose some class or group has members. In other words, statements may be true about classes or groups even if no members of the class or group exist.

What is the fallacy of essentialism? ›

The fallacy of essentialism

Classical Greek philosophers saw essence as the necessary characteristics of a thing (those it cannot lose without ceasing to be itself), as opposed to its accidental or possible characteristics (those it happens to have but could abandon without losing its identity as that thing).

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